I am 6 years older than my husband. Six years can make a huge difference when you want to have a child. This haunts me sometimes and I can't help but feel guilty.
Its funny because age was never something that I really thought about.
Now it consumes me.
That and the myriad of what ifs:
What if we'd met earlier?
What if we didn't wait so long to get married?
What if we tried to get pregnant before we got married?
What if we had tried IVF right away?
What if... What if... What if...
These questions are enough to drive a person crazy. At times they are all I can think about. If I'd let them they could completely take over my life.
So what do I do?
I let myself think them, feel the pain, and then move on... at least for a little while.
Then I start the cycle all over again.
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