Wednesday 24 June 2015

No Woman is an Island

When I first decided to write a blog about our IVF journey, and the fact that I was trying to conceive over the age of forty, I was hesitant. 

Part of me was still embarrassed and ashamed that we were having to do IVF in the first place.

I was also concerned that I wouldn't be able to put into words what I was experiencing, and wondered if anyone would be interested in what I had to say.

But I am so glad that I did.

A few days ago, just before heading out to have dinner with family, I quickly wrote a post about my blog on my Facebook page. When I got home a few hours later I became completely overwhelmed by the love and support that I received from everyone.

Most touching was the numerous messages I received from former colleagues, acquaintances, friends and even family members who wanted to share their personal experiences with me. 

When I started this blog I thought it would be therapeutic to be able to write down my experiences, and hoped that maybe I would be able to help someone, an unknown stranger, who was going through a similar journey. I never imagined that I would be opening the door for someone that I already knew. 

One of my colleagues, who experienced a loss before having a beautiful healthy baby, shared what her father said to her after she gave birth. He emphasized how strong and brave women are... and how men would never be able to go through the things we do! 

His comments touched me so much... and I have to agree with him. 

If you want to see true strength you only have to look at your mother, grandmother, sister, daughter and best friend. 

1 comment:

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